Words for your marriage
Short, pastoral writing for real marriages — Scripture-rooted and plainly said.
A Covenant, Not a Contract
Most of us were handed a picture of marriage before we could examine it. Scripture tells a different, sturdier story.
Why Marriage Exists
The passage everyone braces for is not mainly about who runs the household. It answers a bigger question — what marriage is even for.
When You Don’t Feel “In Love” Anymore
The warmth thinned out, and the culture says that’s the end. Scripture says something steadier — and more hopeful.
Why Do We Keep Having the Same Fight?
The topic changes, but the argument never does. Scripture points past the dishes to the thing actually driving it.
“Should I Stay or Should I Go?”
Nobody asks this on a good day. If you are at that crossroads, here is a word meant to be careful with you.
How to Forgive Your Spouse When It Still Hurts
You already know you’re supposed to forgive. Here is what it actually asks of you when the wound is still open.
When the Bedroom Goes Quiet: Hope for a Sexless Marriage
The closeness thinned out, and the quiet around it gets lonely. Scripture has something steadier to say than shame or despair.
After the Affair: Can Trust Really Be Rebuilt?
The ground gave way, and now you are not sure the marriage can survive it. Here is an honest word about whether trust can come back, and what it takes.
When Your Spouse Wants to Leave and You Don’t
They say they are done, and you are not. Here is a word for the one who still wants to fight for the marriage, when it feels like fighting alone.
Married but Lonely: When You Feel Like Roommates
You share an address, a calendar, and a bed, and somehow you have never felt more alone. Here is why it happens, and the way back toward each other.
Does God Want Me to Stay? What Scripture Actually Says About Divorce
It is one of the heaviest questions a person can ask. Here is what the Bible actually says about divorce, and about the God who is more for your marriage than you may think.
When You Can’t Stop Fighting — or Stop Resenting Each Other
The fighting cooled into something colder, and you have started keeping score. Here is honest help for a heart that has gone hard toward the person you married.
Pornography Is Destroying Us: A Word to Those Who Watch It and Those Who Sell It
Producing or consuming, in a video or a novel, single or married, it is the same sin, and it is unmaking a generation. This is the truth about it, and the way home.
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